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How do you tell your best friend her boyfriend not into her anymore an his talkin to her bestfriend?

I don't know how to tell my best friend that her boyfriend is not into her anymore. And he wants to be with me....And he wants me to tell her so that maybe she will break up with him so he don't hurt anymore....

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annegray 		Tell her the truth and tell her that he wanted you to do so. You will more than likely loose both as friends (if they are) but you won't be in the middle of a crappy situation.

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ladylove 		DONT tell her you like her boyfriend. tell this boyfriend that he needs to do the right thing and be honest with her-his feelings have left, so it's only fair to break up with her. yes, she will be upset. wait a little bit, if she moves on quickly, ask what she would do if YOU dated this guy. if she isn't okay with that; respect that.

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ladygirl 		Don't get involved. Trust me. If you really care about your best friend, you won't get pulled into such an awkward situation. It will RUIN your friendship, but then again, I'm just talking from my own experience.

You're either with your best friend or with her boyfriend, but you can't have both unless you're incredibly lucky and blessed with a best friend who forgives you for stealing her boyfriend. Maybe that's not what it sounds like, but thats exactly what she'll see it as.

Honestly, I think the best thing to do is to just let them work it out, and make a decision and ask yourself- do you really want to hurt your best friend over a boy?

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ladygirl 		He's trying to get out of breaking up with her. It's his decision and he should be the one to tell her. Don't let him push this off onto you. Your friend's going to be upset no matter what, but it'll be better if she hears it from him than from you.

It's not fair to her to make her do the breaking up when she still wants him and he doesn't want her. And it's not fair to you to make you the bearer of bad news.

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ladylove 		WELL UNLESS THERE IS ANOTHER BEST FRIEND IN THE PIC YOU COUD BE THE OTHER WOMAN... I WOULD GO TO HIM AND EXPL TO HIM THAT HE NEEDS 2 BE HONEST W/ HER AND LET HER KNOW B/C TRUTHFULLY THATS A DANGEROUS GAME... 2NDLY IF HE DOESNT DO SO W/IN A RESONABLE AMOUNT OF TIME AS A FRIEND I THINK YOU SHOULD TELL HER... ITS NOT RIGHT TO HIDE A SECRET LIKE THAT, ESP IF YOU HAVE A CONSCIENCE, I KNOW IT MUST BE HARD... BUT CONSIDER YOURSELF A TRUE FRIEND IN THIS CASE AND TELL HER WHATS REALLY GOING ON, YOU WILL SAVE YOURSELF A LOT OF BAD FEELINGS AND YOU WILL SAVE YOU FRIEND FROM PROLONGED HEART ACHE... GOOD LUCK AND I WISH YOU THE BEST

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ladygirl 		Ummm, Don't tell her at all.. The things that the other guy is telling you should be a way for you to make your friend more appealing to your friend! HER HER SPICE UP HER GAME>> However, do not tell her that her boyfriend dosen't want ther unless he's cheating then that grounds for you to spill the beans..If it were me I would tell her only because she's my friend.. But that's just me, I wouldn't want to see my friend that I adore in misery, Would you?????

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ladylove 		Yeah you should be bold enough to tell her since you was bold enough to snatch her boyfriend. Obviously you did something to provoke him to not liking her anymore.

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ladylove 		Your a slut! why would you even do that to your best friend.. cause you ovbiously gave him a reason to wanna be with you. ? um and hellooo he should be the one telling herrrr... NOT your slutty ass. Gooood i hate girls like you!

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ladygirl 		Walk away. He sounds like a sleaze ball. If he does it to her, Who do you think will be next?

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ladylove 		I thing that you should tell your best friend that she should break up with him. If that doesn't work, tell her the truth. I'm really sorry that your best friend's boyfriend feels that way. Hope I helped. Good luck! (:

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gracie 		If you get with your best friend's boyfriend, I guarentee that it will cause problems between you (your friend).

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ladygirl 		yer bestfriend has a horrible boyfriend.

HOW ABOUT HE DOES IT HIMSELF ?

or is that to hard fer his immature brain.

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annegray 		first off, i know your her best friend but thats there biz. unless your messin around wit him he needs to tell her and if you are....your not a very good best friend at all. if my best friend was messin wit my man behind my back i would ever talk to her again and i'd prolly beat her a**. how would you feel if you were in her shoes? reall, think about it for a sec..... it probibly would feel very good would it? let him tell her.


wen i was 13 i went out with this guy, i thought i loved him but that was puppy love. we broke up and a year in a half later my best friend was messin around wit him. i found out and told her i knew she had to tell me something cuz she had been acting really wierd ( i have been best friends with her sense we were 7) she broke down in tears and told me what happend. i was a lil WoooW about it all but i had already had a new man. years later they had kids and broke it off. and the guy i was with then, im still wit now and i have the cutest lil boy wit him. i felt bad for her cuz it didnt last but he was a dirt bag and i wasnt gonna lose my best friend to that guy. if she would have broke us up and got wit him right then, i prolly would have flipped. 13 years later we are still bffs and we laugh about it all the time. dont interfear. even if you think he's worth it, is he worth losing your best friend over? and if you think he is at least wait till she is way over him.

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